so many many questions and thoughts around this.
today, i'll start here. 

what's the difference in accepting and settling?

how can i be my best me and still accept who i am?
like deep down?

how can i expect the best out of people (like love does) but still take them for who they are?

what if accepting what IS ruins everything that
COULD BE?

how can i make peace with accepting what i hate but have no power to change?

more questions than answers today.   i need wisdom.